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I've been searching since early in the
summer of '05. When I think of my search for a wife, the song "Cinderella
Search" by Marillion comes to my mind. The lyrics don't fit me or my situation
but I think of my life as the glass slipper, and I'm trying to find a woman
who's life is like a big sweaty foot that fits.... wait... scratch that. Anyway,
What follows is about all I can think of to say about who I'm looking for. The woman I end up marrying some day will probably be totally different... !
(Also check out Growing up again in
my testimony).
~ Excuse me... I'm looking for someone. I've been looking for her for a long time now. I'm not really sure what she looks like, but she's pretty and energetic, funny and fun! I don't even really know much about her but I know she's smart and a hard worker. She's compassionate, humble, able to work through problems, she's mature but can also be silly! I do know that she wants to learn, grow, improve and experience! She's not perfect but I wouldn't have her any other way. I couldn't live with perfection! Even in our imperfection we are still perfect for each other! She loves God and wants to please Him and she's out there, somewhere, looking for me...
~ I'm enjoying life but I want to share it with her! I want to find a house out
in the country and turn it into a home with her. I want to get up early and share coffee and the sunrise with her.
I want to learn about the things she is interested in and share them with her and I would love to have her join
me in some of the things I enjoy! Oh, I know that the business of the day would often separate us, but meeting
again in the evening, warm hugs and kisses, talking about our day... Maybe making dinner together and relaxing a
while... Weekends would be for us. Even cleaning the house would be fun with her! We would make our daily chores
fun! I'd see her face light up with a smile, finding a love note in the laundry! She would be outside making funny
faces at me while I was trying to clean the windows! You see, I don't even know her but I must already miss her.
It's the only way I can explain the tear in my eye...
~ I don't know if she has children, but if she does I'd want to treat them as my
own and teach them about life and how to be Christ-like in todays world - just as I teach my own two boys. I'd
want us to be a family, a happy one! A healthy one! I know that life isn't always good. But we would always be
ready to help each other. Comfort, encourage and hold each other... pray for each other.
~ I am honest, moral, kind, easy going, simple,
intelligent, artistic, affectionate, supportive, calm, patient, encouraging.
I like walks, wood heat, watching birds, coffee, building things, music, teaching
my boys, ice cream, photography. I try to be a man of integrity and want to be more
like Christ. I love living in the country, campfires, storms, relaxing evenings
and I will make you laugh! I haven't traveled much but would like to. I bought a guitar and plan to learn to play it,
to write and record rock music for the Lord! I can be serious and deep, but like to be light
hearted and positive - I've been known to get silly too! ~ I believe that communication is vital and that
men and women should try to understand each others needs and strive to supply
them. Makes for a good marriage! ~ I need a good woman who is solid in her relationship
with God. Not perfect or "super Christian" but doing her best to live
a life that is pleasing to Him. A woman who will stand by me and support me
in my role as "head of the family". A woman of wisdom. I value a woman's
wisdom and like to discuss matters of importance with her. I want
a woman who will teach me things and let me teach her things. I want a marriage
full of sharing, oneness, learning and growing, shared dreams and goals. I appreciate a woman
with a career. It doesn't matter to me if she's a doctor or a cashier
at Wal Mart. It's not about the money, it's about the discipline. ~ I appreciate a hard worker, someone not afraid
to compromise, unselfish, kind , affectionate, somewhat independent and a good
influence on my boys. A woman who knows that a marriage isn't one big honeymoon,
and can be content and have fun in our day to day routine. I would like someone
slim and attractive but it's not mandatory. Someone health conscious - willing to exercise with me (I'm not ready to get old and shriveled
up just yet!) ~ I would really prefer to meet someone fairly close to where I live. I'd like to spend time with her,
do things together, deal with life together. I think that maybe two people's lives can grow together in time and that love can grow there too, among
the shared time and experiences. Long distance relationships don't allow for much sharing of time and experiences together. Birth date: August
24, 1962 Height: 5'
11'' Weight: 195
lbs. Smoking: Bleh! I
think it's disgusting! Drinking: I
don't drink at all Race: Caucasian Speaks: English,
Goofese! Education: High
school graduate Marital Status: Divorced Denomination: Mostly
Pentecostal ©Copyright 2009-2010,
Tom Mroczek
~ I
work hard so I'm in pretty good shape. I ride my bike in the summer and lift weights in the winter.
I love music (I'm a drummer), Christian rock, progressive rock, not rap, country or opera!
I have 2 boys ages 9 and 15.
~ I
will do my best to answer every email because we're all in this together and everyone deserves
some kind of response. I've had many women simply disappear - even after exchanging
emails, leading me to believe things were going fine - without the decency to
write a short note of explanation! I take it as my responsibility to be man
enough to let you know if I'm not interested. I would appreciate it if these
ladies, speaking of integrity and compassion, would be woman enough to do the
same! AMEN!!
